God gives spiritual gifts that differ according to the grace given (see yesterday’s list), but ALL Christians are called to a lifestyle where the following actions are exhibited (Romans 12.9-13):

• Let love be genuine
• Abhor what is evil
• Hold fast to what is good
• Love one another with brotherly affection
• Outdo one another in showing honor
• Do not be slothful in zeal
• Be fervent in spirit
• Serve the Lord
• Rejoice in hope
• Be patient in tribulation
• Be constant in prayer
• Contribute to the needs of the saints
• Seek to show hospitality

If that is not enough, then look for tomorrow’s holy list, which includes a number of commands for dealing with evil or quarrelsome people.